"As any new parent knows, the joy of welcoming a new baby into the world is unparalleled," said Charlotte Cripps in The Independent. But since "Emily in Paris" actor Lily Collins and her director husband Charlie McDowell announced their baby's birth by surrogacy, "hell has broken loose". The couple seem to have "hit a raw nerve", with critics accusing them of taking part in an "unethical trend" for "rich people renting women's bodies".
'Social surrogacy' Collins is far from the first Hollywood celeb to face scrutiny for having a child by surrogacy. Nicole Kidman, Kim Kardashian and Sarah Jessica Parker, among others, have faced backlash, too. Many of Collins' critics have focused their anger on what they see as "social surrogacy": using a surrogate not for medical reasons, but for lifestyle ones, such as not having to change body shape.
Collins hasn't commented on why she chose surrogacy, although she has spoken in the past of fears that an eating disorder may have damaged her fertility. McDowell told his Instagram followers: "It's OK to not know why someone might need a surrogate to have a child."
Wondering about the possible reasons is "a natural reaction in the absence of information", said Sophie Beresiner, mother of two girls born through surrogacy, in Glamour. But everyone, including those in the public eye, has "the right to privacy".
'Deep-rooted resentment' "No happy announcement will ever make me see surrogacy as anything other than an unedifying business, nor prevent me from calling for a ban," said Claudia Connell, who has struggled with fertility issues, in the Daily Mail. The global surrogacy industry is thought to be worth nearly £14.5 billion. "At the heart of the trade lies a disturbing imbalance of power. Surrogacy is available only to wealthy people."
When the cost of having children, let alone hiring surrogates or seeking fertility treatment, has become inaccessible to many, it's understandable that the spectacle of "celebrities paying surrogates to have cute babies might unleash deep-rooted resentment", said Cripps in The Independent. The "heated conversations" about the financial barriers blocking many people from starting a family, by any means, speak to an issue that goes much deeper than the controversy around celebrity surrogacy. |