Former child refugee who founded a pioneering tech firm
Dame Stephanie "Steve" Shirley, who has died aged 91, arrived in Britain from Germany as a child refugee on the Kindertransport in 1939. "Early hardship spurred her on to success," said The Telegraph, and she founded a pioneering software company, which she sold for £150 million in 1993. Motivated by her own experiences and the problems she faced in caring for her autistic only child, she set up the Shirley Foundation, which became one of the largest grant-giving organisations in Britain. "By 2003 she had succeeded in her ambition of dropping out of the Sunday Times Rich List, and had made a huge contribution to the understanding and treatment of autism."
She was born Vera Buchthal in Dortmund, Germany, in 1933, to a Jewish judge and his Christian wife; her father was stripped of his position by the Nazis and she was sent to Britain, to live with the Smiths, a loving childless couple in the West Midlands. Her parents survived and later moved to Britain, but showed little interest in her. "My father remarried and had another family. I only heard of his death a year after it happened," she recalled. Excelling at mathematics, she took a degree and went on to work at the Post Office research department developing the Premium Bond computer. Working for the tech company ICL, she realised she had hit the "glass ceiling", and resigned the next day. With just £6 in capital, she then set up a software company, the FI Group (later Xansa) from her kitchen table. She received little interest from prospective clients until her husband, Derek Shirley, a physicist, suggested she abbreviate her name to Steve. "That certainly helped me to get a foot in the door," she said.
Even then, it wasn't easy, said The Times. Shirley recalled promoting products to a civil servant while he tried to pinch her bottom. But in the mid-1960s, jobs started coming in – optimising the schedules of British Rail's freight trains and Tate & Lyle's sugar lorries. Her company boomed, tapping the potential of educated women who had lost jobs after marriage: most of her early employees were mothers, working freelance from home around their domestic responsibilities; Shirley went many years before employing any men at all. Her software designers "developed wiring systems for British Aerospace aircraft in the Falklands conflict, stock control systems for Lyons bakeries and Mothercare", a program for monitoring sewers and another for Concorde's black box.
Shirley ran the business while raising her son, Giles, who was born in 1962. Severely autistic, he was non-verbal and became increasingly violent, needing constant care, which she and her husband shared. As a result she suffered a breakdown, and at one point things were so bad that the couple considered suicide. Giles was eventually admitted to an institution. Shirley later established a home for autistic people, with her son as its first resident, and a school; Giles died from a seizure, aged 35. Shirley retired in 1993, and was made a Dame in 2000. Her husband died in 2021.