Modest royal who taught music at a school in Hull
The first non-titled woman to marry into the royal family for more than a century, Katharine, Duchess of Kent, had a natural elegance and charm that made her one of the most popular members of “The Firm” in the 1960s and 1970s, said The Daily Telegraph. She served as the patron of numerous charities and undertook several overseas tours with her husband, Queen Elizabeth’s first cousin. However, she was probably best known for her regular appearances at Wimbledon, watching from the Royal Box, presenting the winning finalists with their trophies and consoling the losers. Famously, she wrapped a sobbing Jana Novotná in a hug following her defeat in 1993. This compassionate gesture was typical of the Duchess, said The Times – who “pioneered the art of royal empathy” long before Princess Diana (of whom she was very fond) arrived.
If the Duchess, who has died aged 92, was not well known to a younger generation, that was by design. Modest and unassuming, she had never enjoyed the limelight (she preferred working behind the scenes, she said), and in the 1990s she’d asked the Queen for permission to scale back her duties so that she could devote more time to her private passions, which included music. In 2002, she retired completely, relinquishing her Her Royal Highness title. It later emerged that, since the mid-1990s, she had been making a weekly trip to her native Yorkshire to teach music at Wansbeck Primary School, in east Hull. Only the school’s head teacher knew her real identity. To the children, and their parents, she was just Mrs Kent.
Katharine Lucy Mary Worsley was born in 1933, the youngest of the four children of Sir William Worsley, a Yorkshire landowner, and his wife Joyce (née Brunner). She grew up at Hovingham Hall, and was later sent to board at Runton Hill School, in Norfolk. She was a gifted singer and pianist, but she failed to win a place at the Royal Academy of Music. “I passionately wanted to have a career in music, but I wasn’t good enough,” she said. Aged 19, she started volunteering in a children’s home in York; she also taught at Lady Eden’s, a private girls’ school in London. She met Prince Edward, the Duke of Kent, in 1956, when he was stationed at Catterick, not far from her home.
His mother, Princess Marina, was appalled when they became engaged, and ordered them to spend time apart. But they eventually married at York Minster in 1961. The service was broadcast on TV; and thousands of people lined the streets. In later life, she’d credit her “wonderful” mother-in-law for helping her to find her feet in the royal family. She and the Duke had three living children; a fourth was stillborn. “It had the most devastating effect on me,” she said 20 years later. “I had no idea how devastating such a thing could be to any woman.” She suffered from a severe depression, and was hospitalised. She was later diagnosed with Epstein-Barr virus, the symptoms of which include chronic fatigue, and with coeliac disease.
Her illnesses were debilitating, but she was frustrated, she told The Telegraph, when she was portrayed as the royal family’s “bird with a broken wing”. She travelled widely on behalf of various causes, served as chancellor of Leeds University, co-founded a charity to support musicians from low-income families, and gave piano lessons at a rented basement flat. In 1994, she became the first royal to convert to Catholicism since 1685. Her attraction to the faith, she said, was more emotional than intellectual. Cardinal Basil Hume acted as her spiritual guide, and she later volunteered at The Passage, the homeless charity he’d helped establish. She and the Duke spent such long periods apart, it was rumoured that they’d separated; she dismissed this as nonsense, saying they had simply been pursuing their different interests. She spent the last few years of her life with him, in a cottage at Kensington Palace.