Starshine Roshell

Contributing Writer

Starshine Roshell is a veteran journalist and award-winning columnist whose work has appeared in The Hollywood Reporter, New York Post and Westways magazine. She is the author of Keep Your Skirt On, Wife on the Edge and Broad Assumptions.

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Starshine Roshell

My girlfriend is a drunk. Help!

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I can never remember my boyfriend's name during sex. Help!

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I took photos of a celebrity cheating on his wife. Should I sell them?

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My mother-in-law is a demon. Help!

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My stepson is a porn star. Help!

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I caught my boyfriend on Match.com again. Help!

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Feature

Welcome to Tough Love with Starshine Roshell

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My crazy friend invited herself on vacation with me. Help!

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My husband doesn't want me to get a tattoo. Help!

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Will my idiot mother-in-law turn my daughter into a dunce?

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I'm afraid of taking a cancer test. Help!

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My crazy ex wants to prepare our 8-year-old daughter for the apocalypse. Help!

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I'm a Christian. My husband's an atheist. What should our kid be?

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How do I tell my parents I'm not having children?

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Should I tell a stranger that his girlfriend cheated on him with my ex?

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My long-distance boyfriend wants to visit his ex. Help!

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My elderly pal is a menace behind the wheel. Help!

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My messy long-distance relationship is ruining my life. Help!

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Sex with my husband grosses me out. Help!

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I'm against wearing fur. But I'm in favor of looking fabulous. Help!

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Can I dump a friend for being single and bitter?

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I am terribly, horribly depressed. Help!

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Should I divorce my chronically unemployed husband?

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I like to be spanked. Is that weird?

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My bad actor friends make me sit through their horrible performances. Help!

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I'm almost a 30-year-old virgin. Help!

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I want to marry my cousin. Help!

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I caught my best friend sleeping with my son. Help!

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How do you transition from online friendship to real-life friendship?

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My man has a secret crush. Help!

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How do I tell people I don't want kids?

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My buddy invited his pregnant wife to Guys' Night. Help!

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How do I tell someone I love they have bad breath?

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I kinda sorta cheated on my boyfriend. Help!

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How do I get my wife to stop dressing me like a hipster?

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Starshine Roshell

What should I do about my pot-smoking teenage son?