Songwriter whose career was revived by Elton John
A prolific songwriter with a gift for melody, finely tuned commercial instincts and a great relish for the spotlight, Neil Sedaka co-wrote and sang some of the “definitive teenage anthems” of the late 1950s and early 1960s, said The New York Times. Among other hits, he was responsible for “Stupid Cupid” (a UK chart-topper for Connie Francis), “Calendar Girl” and “Breaking Up Is Hard to Do”. The “British invasion”, and its harder rock ’n’ roll sound, cast him into relative oblivion in the mid-1960s, but he bounced back a decade later, thanks largely to Elton John – whose career had followed a similar trajectory to his own.
Neil Sedaka was born in 1939 into a Jewish family in Brooklyn. His father, a taxi driver, was of Lebanese descent. His mother, Eleanor, was of Polish and Russian ancestry. While pregnant with him, she’d tried to induce a miscarriage by taking repeated roller-coaster rides; later, she dedicated her life to him – but also controlled him, said The Guardian. Advised by a second-grade teacher that Neil should have piano lessons, she took a second job to pay for a piano, then made sure he practised for five hours each day. When he started earning, she appointed herself as his manager, banked his paycheques and gave him an allowance. When he married his wife, Leba, in 1962, she told the newlyweds where to go on their honeymoon. In about 1964, he discovered that she and her lover had spent most of his money on high living, but he seems to have quite quickly forgiven her. He was, he said, a “mama’s boy”.
Aged nine, Sedaka won a piano scholarship to the prep school for the Juilliard. He also studied at Juilliard itself, but by the age of 16, he had started writing pop songs with a neighbour, Howard Greenfield, his musical partner for the next 20 years. At a time when many songwriters knew only four chords, Sedaka stood out – and before long the pair had been set up in a cubicle at Aldon Music on Broadway, opposite the Brill Building, where numerous music publishers and studios were based. “Stupid Cupid” was their first hit. Sedaka then got his breakthrough as a performer with “The Diary”. Later hits included “Oh! Carol”, about Carole King, whom he had dated at high school when she was still Carol Klein; she responded with a song called “Oh, Neil!”
”Breaking Up Is Hard to Do” gave him his first US No. 1 as a singer, in 1962, and established him as a teen idol. Then The Beatles arrived in 1964 – and Sedaka’s recording career ended, almost overnight. He continued to write for other artists, but had no further hits in his own name until the early 1970s, when he went to England and, with four future members of 10cc, recorded the album “Solitaire”. It marked the start of his comeback. In 1974, he signed to John’s Rocket Records, and within months he had topped the US charts with “Laughter in the Rain” and “Bad Blood”. In 1975, Captain & Tennille had their first big hit with his song “Love Will Keep Us Together”. As it closes, said The Times, Toni Tennille can be heard ad-libbing “Sedaka is back”. His popularity waned in the 1980s, but he continued to play to large crowds, and in 2005 Tony Christie’s version of his song “(Is This the Way to) Amarillo” made an unexpected reappearance in the UK charts, after Peter Kay filmed a spoof video of it for “Comic Relief”. Sedaka was married to Leba – his manager for many years – for more than six decades. She survives him, with their two children.