'You and I' vs. 'You and me'

Figuring out when to use which is actually very simple

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Between you and I, being both a linguist and an editor sometimes leads to conflicting feelings — and, just between you and me, phrases such as "between you and I" can really get under my skin sometimes.

Did you wince when I started with "between you and I"? If you did, you'll really hate what happened to me a year or so ago. I was walking down the street and a young woman said to me, "Excuse me, can you take a picture of my friends and me?" And then she said, "Sorry for the grammar."

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James Harbeck

James Harbeck is a professional word taster and sentence sommelier (an editor trained in linguistics). He is the author of the blog Sesquiotica and the book Songs of Love and Grammar.