Why feminist brides (sometimes) change their names

Like makeup, changing your name can be a desirable option

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Zoe Holman wants to know why her feminist friends change their names when they get married. Or she says she's curious, but it's clear what she really wants to ask is why they've sold out as feminists. Feminists who oppose name-change — and not all do — tend to assume that name-changers know, deep down, that they're doing something terrible.

We get bogged down in 'choice feminism' discussions — can a woman ever choose the option that's consistent with what's expected of her? The same comes up regarding use of makeup. Given the pressure on women to wear the stuff, can a woman ever choose to do so? The 'choice feminism' conversation makes sense regarding substantive life decisions, but is far weaker regarding symbolic ones.

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Phoebe Maltz Bovy is a writer living in Princeton, New Jersey. Her writing has appeared in The Atlantic, The New Inquiry, and The University of Chicago Magazine, among others. She has a doctorate in French and French Studies from New York University.