How my father scheduled his death

My father scheduled his own death so that he could say proper goodbyes. He kept his sense of humor to the end, and showed us how to let go with dignity, grace, and love.

Karen Brown and her father, Rex, in 2012.
(Image credit: Courtesy of the author)

"How about Tuesday?" My father is propped up on three pillows in bed, talking logistics with my sister and me. We've just brought him his Ovaltine and insulin.

"Or would Thursday be better? That's a couple days after the kids are done with camp."

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