Breaking up is hard to do, but a gift registry could help ease the pain. Functioning much like the wedding or baby shower versions, a divorce registry lists items to purchase for a newly single person that will help them transition to their new life. The trend took off last year after the influencer Becca Murray created one following her divorce.
Divorces can be a heavy financial burden. Aside from hiring a lawyer, “you have to file your divorce with the court, potentially sell your marital property or negotiate a deal to buy it out, and deal with many other types of negotiations”, said lifestyle site Apartment Therapy. The process can “take years before it’s finalised”. And buying the small items required to rebuild amid such tumult is a drag.
A divorce registry “helps support people” who may be “suddenly losing half of their income, moving to a new home or refilling a half-empty one, all while paying for a divorce, which can cost five to six figures”, added Apartment Therapy.
Most of the people building divorce and break-up registries are women. But a break-up is nonetheless the great equaliser, and a “lot of men are in the same position (that) a lot of women are in”, Olivia Howell, founder of the gift registry Fresh Starts, told the Canadian Broadcasting Corporation. “They don’t have anything when they start out” after a divorce. And even though men may also be struggling, “culturally, a lot of men are told to not ask for help or support”.
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