The week's best parenting advice: March 15, 2022

There's more than one way to raise a thriving kid, the line between ambition and perfectionism, and more

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1. There's more than one way to raise a thriving kid

The parenting method RIE (Resources for Infant Educarers), which encourages parents to let children "lead the caregiving process," is trending again, which makes it a good time to point out that "there are numerous ways to raise thriving kids," writes Jessica Grose in The New York Times. Broadly speaking, experts favor "authoritative parenting," which pairs nurturing and support with firm boundaries, but there are many ways to authoritatively parent that can borrow from any number of methods. So parents shouldn't sweat it if an attempt at RIE (or any other parenting method, for that matter) doesn't go well. And no method will fully eradicate the frustration that often goes along with raising a human. "Every single day, you might feel frustration, rage, deep love, wistfulness, and boredom, and sometimes you'll feel a complicated mess of these feelings — none of which make you a 'good' or 'bad' parent," writes Grose.

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Stephanie H. Murray

Stephanie H. Murray is a public policy researcher turned freelance writer.