‘Dotty’ character actress who founded a theatrical dynasty
“Although she was perhaps best known as the mother of two outstanding actors, Emma and Sophie Thompson, Phyllida Law, who has died aged 94, was supremely gifted herself,” said The Guardian. She was a writer, a costume designer and an actress: with her “silken Scottish vocal delivery” and “giddy sense of humour”, Law could be “both calm and scuttling on stage”.
Her stage and TV experience stretched back to the 1950s, but her film career blossomed fairly late, said Patrick Kidd in The Observer, helped in part by the success of her daughters. In 1997 she played Emma’s mother in “The Winter Guest”, directed by Alan Rickman. She also appeared in two films directed by her daughter’s then-husband, Kenneth Branagh, including “Peter’s Friends” (1992). In later life, her experience of looking after her deaf mother-in-law formed the basis of a memoir, “Notes to My Mother-in-Law”, which was followed by the bestseller “How Many Camels Are There in Holland?”, about caring for her own mother as she struggled with dementia. “Like the earlier book, it showed a talent for comic writing, tinged with poignancy and deep love.”
Phyllida Ann Law was born in Glasgow in 1932, the daughter of the journalist William and Meg “Mego” Law, who worked in a dress shop, said The Times. She was evacuated to Lenzie in Dunbartonshire during the Second World War. Her father joined the RAF and subsequently separated from her mother; Phyllida would not see him again until she was 18.
She attended boarding school in Bristol, and then won a place at the University of Glasgow to study French and history. She dropped out to attend Bristol Old Vic Theatre School – to the horror of her grandmother, who said that theatre was the “gateway to Hell”. Law, who initially wanted to be a set designer, discovered by “happy mistake” that she could act.
She met her future husband, Eric Thompson, at The Old Vic in London, where they had walk-on parts in a production of “Romeo and Juliet”. He asked her to marry him one night by a Christmas tree, but believing him to be drunk, she didn’t respond. “I just thought it was bad behaviour,” she said. Two weeks later, realising he was serious, she accepted. They married in 1957. While bringing up her two daughters, Law’s career on the London stage blossomed. She appeared with Alec Guinness in John Mortimer’s “A Voyage Round My Father” and Alan Bennett’s “Habeas Corpus”; in 1986 she starred in “La Cage aux Folles”. Eric, for his part, wrote and narrated more than 400 episodes of the children’s animation “The Magic Roundabout”. Law suspected that she had been the model for Ermintrude the cow.
Law “conveyed an appealing dottiness”, both in the “cardigan parts” of her later TV career and in real life, said The Daily Telegraph. She wore a monocle, claiming to find it “wonderfully effective” for scaring waiters, noting that passers-by probably mistook her for an “elderly Nazi”. The family home, in Hampstead, was crammed with theatrical mementoes; a doormat warned visitors to “Beware of the chickens”.
The one blight on her happy family life was Eric’s poor health; after two decades of heart problems, he died, aged 53, in 1982. She found widowhood “appallingly difficult”, and never remarried. In later life, she lived on the same Hampstead street as her daughters. Most evenings, one of them would phone her at six o’clock to inform her the bar was open. “At which point,” she said, “I put the phone down and go rather swiftly across the road.” Law was appointed OBE in 2014. She is survived by her daughters and four grandchildren.