The week's best parenting advice: June 1, 2021

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1. Secret languages

Does your family have a "secret language"? Inside jokes, pet names, or invented words and phrases that make perfect sense to you, but might be interpreted as utter nonsense by a stranger? As Kathryn Hymes writes at The Atlantic, these languages have a name: "familects." Most families have them, and from an anthropological perspective, they serve to bring us closer to one another. "Familects help us feel like family," Hymes writes. "Private in-group language fosters intimacy and establishes identity." Perhaps unsurprisingly, children are often the "architects" of these words and phrases, Hymes says. "As kids fumble and play with sounds and meaning, their cutesy word experiments can be picked up by the whole family, sometimes to be passed on between generations as verbal heirlooms of sorts."

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Jessica Hullinger

Jessica Hullinger is a writer and former deputy editor of The Week Digital. Originally from the American Midwest, she completed a degree in journalism at Indiana University Bloomington before relocating to New York City, where she pursued a career in media. After joining The Week as an intern in 2010, she served as the title’s audience development manager, senior editor and deputy editor, as well as a regular guest on “The Week Unwrapped” podcast. Her writing has featured in other publications including Popular Science, Fast Company, Fortune, and Self magazine, and she loves covering science and climate-related issues.