Michigan man finally receives telegram congratulating him on his graduation, 50 years later

Robert Fink holds his long-lost telegram.
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The telegram arrived on May 2, 1969 — one day too late.

Robert Fink had just graduated from the University of Michigan, with a degree in history and literature. Ben and Lillian Fischman, the parents of his old friend Arnie, sent him a Western Union telegram congratulating him on his accomplishment, letting Fink know they wished they could have attended the ceremony. The telegram arrived at the Ann Arbor apartment he once shared with three roommates just one day after he moved out to head back to New York for graduate school.

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Fink said he was "touched" the Fischman family thought to send their well wishes, and also felt bad that he was never able to thank them. The telegram arrived at the same time he has heard from other people he hasn't seen in years, including a former student who now lives in Arizona. "The theme for me has been that the long arm of the past is reaching out and grabbing me, and I should take it seriously," Fink said. Catherine Garcia

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Catherine Garcia, The Week US

Catherine Garcia has worked as a senior writer at The Week since 2014. Her writing and reporting have appeared in Entertainment Weekly, The New York Times, Wirecutter, NBC News and "The Book of Jezebel," among others. She's a graduate of the University of Redlands and the Columbia University Graduate School of Journalism.