China’s marriage rate is at record lows and its divorce rate is on the rise – but at least some of the country’s singles are teaming up.
As the cost of living intensifies, single mothers are “searching for a new kind of partner: each other”, said The Guardian. Women are posting online in search of “like-minded parents” to share both a home and childcare responsibilities.
There are about 30 million single mothers in China, according to its Ministry of Civil Affairs. When parents divorce, “only one in six fathers chooses to raise their children”, said China Daily. That leaves more than 80% of those families being led solo by a woman.
“The strain is acute,” said Chinese online magazine Sixth Tone. Long working hours “clash with rigid school schedules” – and many mothers are left “sprinting between office desks and classroom gates”. Despite legal obligations, some ex-husbands refuse to pay child support and state welfare is minimal. Government data shows that a significant proportion of single mother families in developed cities live below the poverty line.
But in recent years social media platforms “have become lifelines where women trade advice, pool expenses and, in some cases, find one another”. Some “roommate mums” simply split the rent, but “others share school pick-ups and grocery runs, piecing together a version of family that is less solitary, less precarious and a little more possible”. But many say their children are the “biggest beneficiaries” of the arrangement, according to The Guardian. |