1. The rise of digital self-harm
More and more teens are targeting themselves online, a practice known as "digital self-harm," reports Chantelle Pattemore in Healthline. Typically, an adolescent will create an anonymous account, and then uses it to "send hateful, threatening, or humiliating messages or threats" to themselves, said Sameer Hinduja, co-director of the Cyberbullying Research Center. According to Hinduja's research, the share of adolescents who engaged in the practice rose from 6 percent in 2016 to 9 percent in 2019. It's not exactly clear why teens digitally self-harm; they could be looking for attention, attempting to decipher who is "on their team," or simply trying to punish themselves, Pattemore writes. And it can be very difficult for parents to figure out if their child is digitally self-harming, but if you suspect yours is, be sure to reach out to a mental health professional for guidance.
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2. Toy rotation actually works
"Less really may be more when it comes to kids and toys," writes Anna Maltby in Romper. Toddlers in rooms with fewer toys tend to play with them longer, and in a greater variety of ways. If you'd like to give toy rotation a try, you'll need a few hours, some lidded storage bins, and extra-large Ziploc bags. Sort all of your child's toys into three categories: trash, donate, and keep. Organize the toys you plan to keep into broad categories (think: cars, and building toys), and after setting aside a few to display, place those that remain into bags and store them in a lidded bin along with the other toys in that category. Every couple of weeks, rotate the toys on display, keeping an eye out for any that your child no longer plays with — you can donate those as well.
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3. There is no roadmap for parenting adults
There is no shortage of advice available to parents of minors, but "once children reach adulthood, the instruction abruptly stops," despite the fact that it's a tumultuous time, writes Julie Halpert in The Atlantic. Most people rework their relationships with their parents in early adulthood, and while that process is different for everyone, it "seems to be universally confusing." Parents have no legal responsibility to support their adult children, nor any authority to direct their decisions, but "the moral responsibility of helping one's kids doesn't just go away when they leave the nest." Finding the right balance of involvement can be tricky, especially when young adults struggle to achieve financial stability, or when, eventually, aging parents need support from their kids. "In the best cases, these bonds transcend any simplistic dynamic of a caregiver and a person being cared for, instead embodying a profound reciprocity," Halpert writes.
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4. The promise of oral immunotherapy
Traditionally, children with food allergies must vigilantly steer clear of the foods to which they are allergic, but Oral Immunotherapy (OIT) may offer a promising alternative, writes Emily Oster in ParentData. The goal of OIT — which must only be undertaken under close supervision of a doctor — is to "prompt desensitization to the allergic food by having people consume small, increasing doses," writes Oster. The goal is "to induce tolerance to small amounts of the food, such that if there were an accidental exposure, it would not be life-threatening." An evaluation of Palforzia, an FDA-approved OIT treatment for peanut allergies, found that "67.2 percent of the treated group were able to ingest 600 mg of peanut protein at the end of the trial without severe symptoms, versus only 4 percent of the control group." Data on OIT for milk, eggs, and sesame show similar promise.
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5. Handling after-school 'restraint collapse'
There's a name for the meltdown your kid has immediately after walking out of school: restraint collapse. "A classroom setting places enormous demands on our kids," explains Elizabeth Holmes in Romper. "Beyond learning the alphabet or how to read, students are honing their social and emotional skills" and learning to regulate their emotions. It's no wonder that kids need "to release and regroup" afterward. However frustrating, restraint collapse isn't a bad thing. "It's a sign our kids are learning to cope and determine where — and how — to release their feelings," writes Holmes. "It's a compliment! The outburst means you are their safe space." So it's best not to fight it; instead, plan for it. Avoid after-school playdates or trips to the grocery store. "Don't think of it as reinforcing bad behavior, but rather giving your kid the space and love that they need."
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