Breaking up is hard to do, but a gift registry could ease the pain. Functioning much like the wedding or baby shower version, a divorce registry lists items to purchase for a newly single person, to help them transition to their new life. The trend took off last year after the influencer Becca Murray created one following her divorce.
A breakup registry financially helps those “going through a divorce, which can cost five to six figures,” said Apartment Therapy. While married or dating, a couple “usually shares a lot of household essentials, like electronics, cookware and furniture,” that require replacing after the pair splits up and goes their separate ways, said Cafe Mom.
The products in divorce registries are “exactly what you think people need,” said Olivia Howell, the founder of the gift registry Fresh Starts, to CBS News. It’s the items that “your partner may have touched a lot: dishes, cups, utensils, towels, sheets, bedding, blankets.”
“Even everyday items can carry heavy memories and leave homes feeling half-empty,” said CBS News. So a gift from a breakup or divorce registry can be a “great way to begin the healing process,” said the lifestyle publication Chatelaine.
The “cultural shift toward destigmatizing divorce was already underway,” said Fresh Starts on its website. A registry gives it “infrastructure, language and legitimacy.” Plus, filling your home with gifts from loved ones “helps bolster your confidence,” said Howell, and lets you “make bigger, bolder decisions in life.”
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