An increasing number of women are "marrying down" when it comes to education, said The Atlantic. Marriages had been moving in a "more egalitarian direction" since the mid-20th century, when more women began attending university and entering the job market. But now the trend of women "partnering up with their educational equals," called homogamy, seems to be reversing, with a growing number practicing hypogamy — wedding someone of a lower social class or education level.
Not 'too picky' Women outnumber men in higher education in almost all developed countries. And while women's advancement is a "cause for celebration," it's also creating "issues" in heterosexual dating, said The Independent.
Up to 45% of single women with a degree attribute their relationship status to an "inability to find someone who met their expectations," according to a 2023 study from the Institute for Family Studies. And they are not just being "too picky." Polling expert Daniel A. Cox, who surveyed more than 5,000 people for the study, found his interviews with men "dispiriting." Many were "limited in their ability and willingness to be fully emotionally present and available."
'Romantic pessimism' Women's academic success, coupled with the lingering "male breadwinner norm," gives the "shrinking pool of more successful men tremendous power," said Sarah Bernstein at The New York Times. But others struggle to compete in the dating market — "enter the manosphere," a space filled with "romantic pessimism."
Many women are also feeling "similarly despondent," said Bernstein. As much as 41% of single people have "no interest in dating at all," according to a 2023 study by the Survey Center on American Life.
But beliefs may be "evolving," said The Atlantic. In countries where hypogamy is more prevalent, people are less likely to agree that if a woman "earns more money than her husband, it's almost certain to cause problems," according to data from the World Values Survey.
While hypogamous marriages used to be more likely to end in divorce, this is "no longer the case," recent analyses in the U.S. and Europe have found. These trends don't prove a major shift is underway, said The Atlantic, but they may "offer a reason to be cautiously optimistic." |