Court: You really shouldn't tell him you're pregnant in a Facebook message

Court: You really shouldn't tell him you're pregnant in a Facebook message
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Facebook: Great place to announce the fact you made a killer lasagna for dinner, not such a great place to tell your ex you're having a baby and giving it up for adoption.

The Oklahoma Supreme Court ruled 6-3 last week that a Facebook message left by a woman to her former partner telling him she was pregnant was not ample enough notice to support terminating his parental rights, The Oklahoman reports. This overturned two lower court decisions.

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In the majority opinion, Justice Douglas Combs wrote that leaving a message on Facebook was "an unreliable method of communication," and "this court is unwilling to declare notice via Facebook alone sufficient to meet the requirements of the due process clauses of the United States and Oklahoma Constitutions."

In the minority opinion, Justice James R. Winchester argued that a father is responsible for determining whether or not a partner becomes pregnant. "He cannot complacently wait for the female to find him in the event of a pregnancy," he wrote. The case is being sent back to district court, which will reconsider whether McCall's parental rights should be terminated.

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Catherine Garcia, The Week US

Catherine Garcia has worked as a senior writer at The Week since 2014. Her writing and reporting have appeared in Entertainment Weekly, The New York Times, Wirecutter, NBC News and "The Book of Jezebel," among others. She's a graduate of the University of Redlands and the Columbia University Graduate School of Journalism.