What is survivor’s guilt?

Second Parkland massacre survivor takes their own life in less than a week amid calls for greater mental health support

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Survivors and relatives at the Parkland memorial
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A second survivor of the Parkland shooting massacre has taken their own life in under a week, shining a spotlight on the phenomenon of survivor’s guilt.

It comes less than a week after a 19-year-old survivor of the deadliest-ever US high school shooting took her own life.

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According to her family, Syndey Aiello was suffering from “survivor’s guilt” and had been diagnosed with post-traumatic stress disorder.

Aiello had been close friends with one of the shooting victims, Meadow Pollack, whose family described her death as “tragic, shocking and heartbreaking, and surely at least in significant part the result of the ripple effect of the MSD shooting”.

According to Vox’s Amanda Sakuma, “it’s not unprecedented for tragedies such as Parkland to have a ripple effect of trauma for survivors”.

The news site notes that students who lived through the Columbine shooting in 1999 “notably struggled in the aftermath of the massacre. Some also died by suicide soon after”.

Dr Victor Schwartz, chief medical officer at The Jed Foundation, a nonprofit that focuses on monitoring teenagers' and young adults' emotional health and preventing suicide, told NBC News that “exposure to death around you does to some small degree raise the risk of suicide”.

“It stands to reason that there is some increased risk around the survivor guilt,” he said.

Victims of trauma can struggle with guilt over failing to stop tragedy, despite it being out of their control, says Crisis Center of Tampa Bay CEO Clara Reynolds.

“That thinking will continue to escalate, to the point that you become very depressed and very despondent,” she told Fox News.

The Daily Mail reports that in the immediate aftermath of the Parkland shooting the local school district opened several counselling centers. Grief counsellors and comfort animals were also on site as students returned to school in the weeks following the massacre.

Yet Reuters reports that the suicide of two survivors in quick succession “drew calls for increased spending on mental health services for the Marjory Stoneman Douglas High School community and other schools”.

David Hogg, who survived the 2018 shooting and became a gun control advocate, said schools needed serious mental health funding and proper guidance counsellors.

“How many more kids have to be taken from us as a result of suicide for the government/school district to do anything?” he tweeted.

“Another approach to suicide prevention is addressing the underlying problem that embroiled the Parkland survivors in the first place: gun violence” says Sakuma.

Research shows that states with higher rates of gun ownership also have higher rates of suicides by guns, with 48% of all suicide deaths involving firearms according to the Centre for Disease Control and Prevention.

Sakuma says “these data points may help unlock a potential solution, one that Parkland survivors have been pointing to all along: Fewer guns lead to fewer deaths”.

If someone you are worried about expresses suicidal feelings, you or they should contact a GP or NHS 111. You can also call the Samaritans free on 116 123 for confidential, 24-hour support, or call Mind, the mental health charity, on 0300 123 3393.

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