The myth of the silver fox

Do men secretly hate aging?

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Do men secretly hate aging?

My husband just turned 40. We've been together for half the birthdays he's ever had, and for absolutely none of them has he enjoyed himself. This year, despite his long history of extreme loathing of his special day, I couldn't help myself. I planned a fancy dinner and booked childcare. It seemed straightforward enough — nothing too birthday-y. He likes nice food, I thought. He likes it when someone else takes care of our kids. What could possibly go wrong?

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Ruth Margolis
Ruth ​Margolis is a British ​journalist living in the U.S. Her work has appeared in ​The Guardian, ​The ​Daily Telegraph and BBCAmerica.com.